It's starting to look to me that all our issues are an effect of unadjusted filament pressure, result of the lag between plastic being pushed by the extruder and what comes out of the hot end. It's also amplified by the bowden setup. So basically, due to ooze, there's too much extrusion during the slowdown, and then not enough during acceleration, causing the nozzle to pull. Makerbot sailfish firmware is adjusting this with JKN algorithm. Marlin's got something called extruder advance, but as far as i know it's not working that well (http://forums.reprap.org/read.php?1,368834)
There's a guy who developed a gcode post processing script, you can read more here:
http://basdebruijn.com/2014/05/machinekit-and-additive-manufacturing/
http://basdebruijn.com/2014/09/velocity-extruding-revisited/
EDIT: i posted this before reading your latest post. Are you positive it's a different issue? Can it be that it's the same cause, only more visible on the overhang corners?