Thanks for this post SandervG!
As someone who fell for a scam just recently, I would not deal with anyone who refuses to use Paypal Goods and Services . Do not use Paypal friends and family or Zelle or any other mechanism.
Additional steps you can take as a buyer:
Goto archive.org and take a snapshot of their post. This way if they delete evidence or alter it, you will have a trusted 3rd party source of the original post.
Have the person Include the link to the original post in their PayPal Invoice.
Have the person send you a video of the printer with today's newspaper or NYT website open or something. Do not worry about inconveniencing them. You are buying, they are selling. You are the customer and they should be doing extra work to make a deal work.
If you fall for a scam, call your bank and then file an FBI report here: ic3.gov. It may be slow, may not seem like the feds will do anything, but eventually it will happen.
Additional Steps as a seller:
Ship via tracked and signature required. This way a buyer cannot open a dispute with PayPal that you never shipped.
Take a video of you packaging and a photo of the final box for dispute related incidences
Do not skimp on the insurance for the package
Only ship to PayPal verified addresses. If the buyer does not have one, ask them to do it (it takes 2 minutes).