I am seeing the same with 3.5 beta on Win 10 and I am using the Octoprint plugin.
It is not clear to me where the memory is leaking, but TaskManager does not show memory reserved for Cura. That stays modest around 250 to 300MB in my case but my 8GB system runs out of memory after a couple days. The total in TaskManager goes over 90%, Cura shows maybe 300MB but when I exit Cura, the total memory in use drops from 90% back down to 30ish %.
Given the above behavior, perhaps there is a leak associated with a driver and memory is getting allocated at the system level but not charged to the Cura process.
I'll load RAMMap and try to get more data if that would help.
Thanks,
Stephan